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Friday, April 24, 2009

Something Nice?? About Me??? Hmmmmm

I'm told on a daily basis that I'm "just too hard on [myself]." I don't find that to be one bit true. I like to think I'm constantly working on improving myself. When I told this to my friend, she suggest that I work on saying nice things about myself--she even challenged me to do a weekly post stating something I like about myself and include an example. I've accepted the challenge and have found that this is going to be so hard for me. I don't think I can do once a week, but maybe twice a month. Here goes C.
A few weeks ago I received a "Daily Gem" email with this quote. When I read it, I actually forwarded it to Case and told him that here is something I think I'm good at. I think he was excited to hear me say something positive about myself. I know he wishes I would do it more. The quote says....

“What can. . .young mother[s] [do]. . .to reduce the pressure [of raising young children] and enjoy [their families] more?. . . Recognize that the joy of motherhood comes in moments. There will be hard times and frustrating times. But amid the challenges, there are shining moments of joy and satisfaction. Author Anna Quindlen reminds us not to rush past the fleeting moments. She said: ‘The biggest mistake I made [as a parent] is the one that most of us make. . .I did not live in the moment enough. This is particularly clear now that the moment is gone, captured only in photographs. There is one picture of [my three children] sitting in the grass on a quilt in the shadow of the swing set on a summer day, ages six, four, and one. And I wish I could remember what we ate, and what we talked about, and how they sounded, and how they looked when they slept that night. I wish I had not been in such a hurry to get on to the next thing; dinner, bath, book, bed. I wish I had treasured the doing a little more and the getting it done a little less."

I like that I'm a live in the moment kind of mom--for the most part anyway. We have a basic routine that we follow, but on a lot of days, I'll completely blow the routine to savour the moment. Don't get me wrong, I have my fair share of challenges and frustrations, but I really do love "doing" what a mom does.
Just this past Sunday, I woke up early to make sure we made it to church on time, well the boys were so fun and playful that morning that I couldn't resist tickling, wrestling, and playing with them--the result I was late for church. Case and the kids made it on time, but not me.Would I trade the opening hymn for those sweet giggles? Not ever!!
*I am NOT advocating missing church or even being late--just giving an example!!
WOW--that was so HARD for me!!! Hopefully it will get easier!!

2 comments:

Annie said...

It's about time! I have decided that maybe if you saw in yourself what everyone else see's in you, you could do a daily compliment about yourself..... actually probably numerous daily compliments! Just saying.....

Rachael said...

Amen Annie!